2025-05-11 13:31:02
还有这种套路，我记得我年轻的时候最讨厌的一个就是擦皮鞋倒不是讨厌这个职业，而是很厌恶这种服务，总是让我感到很不舒服
现在看有个女孩子穿着吊带儿，给你擦皮鞋，怎么感觉挺爽的
看来还是服务的人不一样 感觉不一样 [捂脸][捂脸][捂脸]
2025-05-11 13:20:31
如果没有编程这份职业，我估计会很惨
如果我没有没有上大学，我会继承我父亲的职业，搞一搞装修之类的事情 但我都不喜欢
如果上了大学，我能挤进关系复杂的职业序列吗？我看难，因为我根本就不想和别人讲话....
2025-05-11 11:10:22
早上看这本书的时候，觉得自己还是应该去写代码、做产品
不过心态上会比以前更开放一些
2025-05-11 07:38:40
今天母亲节，早上醒来，用小象超市给老婆买了一束玫瑰花
玩了一会儿手机后，盯着天花板想事情 一阵悲观
“我好像无力改变我现在的生活……”
想到以前在生活中遇到的一些人，总觉得只要向前走一步，生活就会大为改观，他们为什么不做？
现在轮到我自己了
天天想喝酒，想躺着并进入一种微醺状态
无力改变自己的精神状态
无力改变自己的家庭情况
无力改变自己的体能和体态
2025-05-11 02:30:56
RT Jason Fried
Whenever it feels like it's time to write another book, I start by writing the intro.
I aim to keep it around a few hundred words, and I only give myself a few minutes to write it. If it feels like a struggle, I'm not proud of it, or it's just no good, then it's not the right time to write a new book. I don't try again. I wait. Sometimes months. Then, once it feels like it might be time again, I start again.
I did this a few months ago and it didn't get anywhere. And then yesterday, spurred on by sparky friction here on X, I just felt the urge to write.
I like it. I think we have the beginnings of a new book (co-authored with @dhh, of course). The working title is "Making it up as you go".
Here's the introduction:
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This book presents a new approach to work. One we’ve been working on, and working under, for nearly three decades. No theory, abstractions, or anything academic. Just real stuff.
It’s not a business book about numbers, metrics, OKRs, KPIs, forecasting, targets, goals, estimates or other conveniently measurable things. They say you can only manage what you can measure. Bullshit.
It’s not a business book about certainty, either. Not chasing it, not craving it, not seeking it out. They say you should know everything about what you’re about to do before you do it. Bullshit.
It’s also not a business book about big. It’s not about growth, or fundraising, or scaling, or competing, or winning. They say the only worthy way is up and to the right at all costs. Bullshit.
If you want traditional business books like that, there are a billion on the shelf. Throw a dart, pick one up, and you’ll have read nearly all of them once you’ve read one of them.
This is a book about making it up as you go. About developing and following your intuition and gut. About finding a sustainable orbit and settling in. About making lots of small reversible decisions rather than big, scarring, permanent ones.
It’s a book about wandering ahead now, rather than walking a path you set before. About playing it out, rather than planning it out. About doing what you think, rather than doing what you thought. About exercising independence, rather than getting in line.
Because you don’t run a business, you ride it.
This book is the story of how we’ve built our business, 37signals, one day a time over 26 profitable years, without paranoia, without fear, and without worrying that we don’t know where we’re going. Still.
On these pages, we’ll show you how making it up as you go applies to management, strategy, product development, design, technology, customer service, hiring, marketing, writing, and, ultimately, thriving long-term in a highly competitive market by not paying attention to all the things that simply don’t matter.
Let’s get into it.
