2025-02-07 03:34:24
I remember the first time we spoke to a specialist about my daughter Lucie’s mobility like it was yesterday. He was unbelievingly frank for a medical professional. In a world of maybes and possibilities, he gave us truth, and I really appreciated that. He spoke to us and explained in no uncertain terms that she may never walk.
What we came away with was a list of things for us to do. From mobility aids, to a range exercises, with a lot of encouragement required. The list of things for us to try seemed endless, but today we go to the end of them.
Of course, we knew it. We were aware that the writing was on the wall, but nothing prepares you for it. You see, today was the day that we had to be honest and admit that Lucie does not want to walk any more.
Not in the sense that she has no desire to. She wants nothing more than to run around with her friends. Mere weeks ago, she sat and laughed as her cousins surrounded her. Giving chase to each other, and playing games like all children do. None of which she could join in with.
The desire still burns in her soul, but the cost is too much to bear. For each journey unaided, she must pay a toll in energy spent and pain received. Her body just can’t do it any more.
So, my readers, we tried our best. We ticked each and everything off that list, added a few more ourselves, to keep her going. Though tears and pain, and joy. We got her walking for a while, and I’m so proud of her for that. Unfortunately, for Lucie, the end of the list came today.
I did try my best. I swear with all my heart, I really did. But it wasn’t enough to keep that little girl on her feet — and for that, I’m truly sorry.
2025-02-04 23:23:54
I wasn’t aware of of Pika Pulse until the announcement of it shutting down recently. It sounds like a fantastic feature, and the developers of Pika seem like excellent people. For the past week or so I’ve been thinking about recommendations due to my work on Micro Social and including micro.blogs Discover feeds. There’s lots I want to do with it, but there’s always ethical things to consider.
Once you start to use the word recommended, or any simile, you get bogged down. There’s a responsibility of recommending, sharing or pointing towards something that we wall expect. If an influencers tells you a product is good, you expect it too be good. If a blog post appears on a recommended feed, you expect it to be a good read or at the very least represent whoever recommended it.
Technology companies know this more than most. Twitter (not x) used their Verification badge as a sudo support of threat they user was tweeting. Meta too got themselves into hot water recommending news articles and feeds.
There shouldn’t be this guarantee to standards with recommendation but there is. As a society we expect people to stand by their words and their actions and that’s a good thing. If I tell you my blog is good, and then you read it, you won’t trust me again!
I thought long and hard about the recommended book section in Micro Social, deciding to include it because it’s built from the community at large, and I have nothing to do with. But if people start getting rubbish reviews they won’t trust it very long — but that’s just the problem with recommendations.
2025-02-04 14:43:27
As you might already know, I’m developing an iOS app for Micro.blog. It happened quite accidentally, really. I initially created a basic app for myself, which I used for a while, gradually adding features until it became something I thought others would enjoy. Now, it’s at a stage where I could take action, but I feel so much like an imposter that I can’t bring myself to do it.
I believe we all experience imposter syndrome at some point in our lives, and right now, it’s really holding me back. That little voice in my head keeps telling me that I’ll just let everyone down. Once other people start using it, they’ll realise how terrible it is and be angry. There will be a massive bug in it that I can’t fix, creating so much stress that any enjoyment I got from making it will be lost.
Sounds fun, doesn’t it? In other aspects of my life, I can usually tell this horrible little voice to shut up. But the reality is, I know nothing about this world of software development. I only started learning a little over a year ago and developed this app completely accidentally. So in some ways I feel as if the voice has a point. Sure I can write some code and design interfaces, but I can barely understand some of the developer documentation. I’m actually dreading trying to get notifications to work!
All of these words are to say that sometimes the biggest hurdle is yourself - and I’m really getting in my way at the moment.
2025-01-31 21:46:28
There are many people out there that don’t realise just how much micro.blog can do, and one of my favourite things is to use it for is reading. It is a great resource for finding recommendations through all reading posts tagged 📚 and tracking the books I read through the year.
So in Micro Social, you will find a toggle to turn on the Books Tab. This works with the standard three bookshelves that every user has on micro.blog and turns the app into your reading companion. From the Book Tab you can see all the books you have on your bookshelves, move them around, and also search for a new book to add to your shelves by tapping the plus.
Finished a book? Just mark is as finished, and it will be moved to your finished reading shelf, with the ability to post about your achievement if you’d like to. Or just quietly revel in your awesomeness — that’s your choice.
Reading goals are a big motivator for me, so it was an obvious feature for me to add. Right at the top of the tab, you will be able to see all the books you finished this year, with a handle progress bar.
Bitten off a bit more than you can chew? No problem, you can edit your goal right in the app easily and your goal and progress will be updated.
Not sure what to read next and you want to read shelf is empty? Micro Social has a recommendations section that pulls books recommended by the micro.blog community for you to add to yourself. From here you can check out what the community are saying about the book, or add it straight to a shelf. You’ll never struggle with what to read next, you might not need to edit your reading goal after all!
That’s reading and the Books Tab on Micro Social — I think you’re going to love it (/Tim Cook voice).
Thank you to those currently supporting the development of Micro Social. I’m blown away by the support, and it means a lot to me. If you feel like you would like to contribute to my work and fund an App Store developer account, feel free to buy me a coffee or two.
2025-01-28 05:27:08
Along with ensuring you can follow a conversation with ease, one of the biggest things I wanted from Micro Social is the ability to be customisable. To be able to shape the way the timeline of posts can be consumed. To get exactly what you want at any point. Here’s the timeline on Micro Social.
With a range of filters available, you can limit and expand the posts you see depending on your mood. You can hide your own (or all) replies from appearing, keep Mentions in their own tab and even get rid of all the photo posts. With a few taps, you can take a nosey feed and quieten it down to a whimper.
I’ve also implemented muting and blocking of profiles, both on micro.blog and federated from elsewhere. There is also full keyword filtering that straightforward to use, so you will only see what you want to.
Why would you want to hide photo posts, you might wonder, it’s a big part of micro.blog — well you can toggle on your own Instagram like feed of everyone’s photos instead. This unique experience mixes photos from your feed, discover and the photos collection into one place. With no infinite scroll to keep you hooked — one calm, happy place.
While we’re on photos, posts with multiple images won’t take up your whole timeline any more. They’ll be displayed in a nice carrousel for your enjoyment, and you can view them full screen with a tap. It doesn’t matter if you’re scrolling your feed, or viewing a threaded conversation, images look great but stay out of your way.
I feel as though I’ve moved so quickly with this app and I am getting to a really enjoyable place, so I’m getting more confident I may launch something soon. I have some more features planned to make this the only micro.blog app you need. There’s been some late nights, and I am sure there will be more to come, so stay tuned for more info.
If you feel like contributing to my work and maybe funding an App Store developer account feel free to buy me a coffee or two.
2025-01-23 22:21:12
Despite possibly picking the wrong time to work on micro.blog related things, I’m determined to push on a work in public to create something worthwhile. Anyway, my first target was threading, it’s one of my biggest frustrations on micro.blog and sometimes makes conversations challenging to follow, so getting this correct and intuitive is important to me.
When accessing a post that is a reply now, the post view displays the post you tapped on accented slightly. Directly above this is the post it is replying to (including a label), and if this is in a longer thread you will also see the ‘Thread Starter’ which is the original post that started it all.
Underneath this are any replies to the post you are viewing, and you can scroll down a little more to see all the replies to the Thread Starter. You can, of course, tap on any of the other posts to see where they fit in the chain and follow along the conversation more easily.
It’s still not perfect, but it shows where my ideas lie is and highlights the reason this app exists. To make all the social elements easier to use on micro.blog, and really focus on that goal. Leaving other apps to offer different features.
If you tap on a post that is a single post, this displays all the replies underneath it as expected. Or if there are not any replies, it will encourage you to leave one and ‘start the conversation’. There’s still some work to tackle ensuring replies go to the right places, but things are going the right way.
As with all of these posts, as I move forward, I am delighted with feedback, good or especially bad, that is focused on the UI and usability. It will help shape the development of the app going forward and also help me improve as a designer. You can reach out to me by leaving a reply, or tap reply via email below, and we can chat about anything you like. As long as it’s not can I have a beta!