2026-10-04 19:20:00
I’ve been overdue for a password audit. Both LastPass and Chrome have been nagging me about a growing pile of passwords that need updating, and looking at the full list is overwhelming.
But, if I do five a weekend, it’ll be solved in a few weeks.
Same thing with ironing. Three weeks of clothes in one pile feels like a lot. One week’s worth at a time is much simpler.
It’s a lesson I apparently need reminding of on a loop: when in doubt, break it down.
Small bits of progress add up quickly.
2026-10-03 19:21:00
A friend shared a story about a conversation with someone who was many steps ahead of him in his career. He’d gone to this person with a career decision where he was deciding between two very different paths.
It was late on a Friday evening but this person committed to figuring this out. As their conversation progressed, his wife called as he was supposed to be at a party. He explained he had to skip it.
Then his boss called, and he again said he was in the middle of something and he’d call back tomorrow.
Then his biggest client called, and, once again, he shared he was in the middle of something important.
This friend was stunned. He was leaving the company after all. At the end of their conversation, he asked him why he upset a bunch of important people just to help him?
His answer was: “You are important to me. And for you, this is a life-changing decision, which makes it important to you. When you are important to me, what is important to you is important to me.”
It is an idea that Stephen Covey shares in the “7 Habits.” But there’s nothing like a good story to make it memorable.
2026-10-02 19:02:00
What we consider normal is a function of the norms of the culture we grew up in. Behavior encouraged in one culture can be entirely unacceptable in another.
That’s why it’s easy to label something as weird: it simply doesn’t match the norms of whatever subculture shaped us – a combination of our family, our neighborhood, and our institutions.
It’s also why diverse teams are so hard to build. Different points of view mean different assumptions, and different assumptions look like weird behavior, at least at first.
But those weird behaviors are often exactly what break through groupthink. The assumptions worth questioning are usually the ones nobody in the room thought to question, because everybody in the room grew up with the same “normal.”
2026-10-01 19:26:00
A group of us play a pickup soccer game together every weekend, with plenty of banter along the way.
Recently, after one game, a casual conversation about the result spiraled into talk of tracking stats: who’s on which team, goals scored, win rates. That escalated further quickly, all the way to using an app for team assignments and stat tracking.
Then the following weekend, we played with all of it in place. Everyone was excited going in. But the game itself was far more competitive than usual. People played tighter, more aggressive, more conscious of every touch.
Which defeats the entire point of a Sunday pickup game: work out, have fun, don’t get hurt.
My takeaway afterward was that the game became a lot more competitive and a lot less joyful the moment people knew they were being tracked.
It is a good reminder that many things in this life are best left un-optimized.
2026-09-30 19:24:00
If you play a sport with a lot of dynamic movement, quick starts, stops, direction changes, buy shoes that fit almost perfectly, even if they feel slightly tight in the store.
A looser shoe feels more comfortable walking around the aisle. On the court or field, however, that same looseness costs blisters, chafed skins, and worse.
I’ve learned this one painfully, more than once.
It has a decent analogy for life too. The option that feels more uncomfortable up front can often be the one that serves you best over time.
2026-09-29 19:23:00
Sometimes it’s worth sitting with discomfort instead of rushing to resolve it.
It builds tolerance. And it gives your mind time to patiently work through a gnarly problem, instead of grabbing the first simple solve that won’t hold up over time.
