2026-10-24 19:28:00
Time dulls the pain from every wound, especially the emotional ones. That won’t help in the moment, when a fresh wound is still raw. But it gives you perspective.
How many emotional wounds from ten years ago can you even remember right now? Most have faded. You went numb to them over time, and eventually you could smile or shrug about the same thing that once felt unbearable.
Even this will pass.
2026-10-23 19:24:00
If you picked up your phone to get one specific thing done, and you’ve done it, put it down.
And just stare.
It’s hard at first. The pull to open it back up is strong, to keep scrolling for one more hit. We love searching for that small comforting hit of having checked everything there is to check.
But it’s worth training ourselves to put it down.
And stare some more.
2026-10-22 19:33:00
It’s amazing how many things feel better with a bit more calm, tact, and humor.
The problem is rarely the what. It’s almost always the how.
2026-10-21 19:32:00
An idea that we discussed recently that stuck with me: ten extra minutes spent making sure what you send is concise and clear can save the organization two hundred minutes.
The math is simple. Send something vague or sloppy to twenty people, and each of them spends ten minutes decoding what you actually meant.
Brevity and synthesis aren’t just good writing. They’re a form of respect for everyone else’s time.
2026-10-20 19:31:00
A good friend put it simply: accountability goes up, credit goes down.
When things go wrong, leaders take accountability. When things go well, credit flows down to the team.
One of the clearest signs of bad leadership is when that relationship reverses.
2026-10-18 19:22:00
A friend and I were talking about organizational behavior recently, and one of her observations stuck with me. Public markets are unforgiving. When performance slips, the market notices, and that pressure, assuming reasonably mature leadership, tends to force a culture of accountability.
Take that pressure away, and the opposite tends to happen. Without real consequences for weak performance, culture drifts toward the performative. The result is inevitably more politics and more energy spent covering your ass vs. doing the work.
It reminded me of Richard Parker, the tiger in Life of Pi. Pi Patel’s fear of the tiger sharing his lifeboat is constant and real. But that same fear is also what keeps him alert, focused, and alive through an impossible ordeal.
Some fear, typically driven by dreading bad consequences, helps keeps organizations honest.
